书籍 Your Own Worst Enemy的封面

Your Own Worst Enemy

Kenneth W. Christian

出版社

Regan Books

出版时间

2002-10-01

ISBN

9780060393922

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

Do you suffer from any of the following?</p> <UL><LI>Procrastination <LI>Wide swings of mood and self-esteem

Ambivalence in making decisions <LI>Dreaming big, but never following through

If you or someone you love isn't living up to his or her potential -- and suffers from even one or two of the above feelings -- here is a program that can help. Your Own Worst Enemy is the first book devoted to the problem of adult underachievement, a problem stemming from common behavior patterns that can manifest itself in almost every walk of life -- from twentysomethings stuck in dead-end jobs to outwardly successful businesspeople who can't help feeling they've missed their true calling.</p>

In Your Own Worst Enemy, Dr. Kenneth Christian details the telltale signs of what he calls self-limiting behavior -- everyday habits that can seem harless (like taking unchallenging jobs) or even worthwhile (like setting absurdly high standards), but that over time can send high-potential people into a tailspin of dead ends and frustration. He identifies underachieving types, from charmers, who substitute congeniality for effort, to extreme risk-takers, who casually gamble their future away, to best-or-nothings, who refuse to play if they can't win. And he offers practical 15-step guide to help underachievers shake off their old habits and start taking an active hand in their own future.</p>

Filled with persuasive case studies and useful advice on everything from overhauling workspace to remaking self-image, Your Own Worst Enemy will help underachievers everywhere visualize their goals, break through their barriers, and start realizing their unlimited potential.

肯尼斯.克利斯汀Kenneth W. Christian

享譽國際的心理學家,臨床執業近30年。1990年創辦「極限潛能計畫」(Maximum Potential Project),經常受邀於美國、歐洲等國家演講,多年來協助過數千人突破低成就的心理障礙,順利在事業與生涯上成功起飛。本書是他最重要的著作之一,所提出的觀點與方法出版之後,引起廣大迴響,並引起熱烈討論。

用户评论
有美国语境吧,鼓励之余也必须有比较严格的推动方式,这样才能不荒废才华。村上春树就是很努力,做什么都得有职业精神……
最大的悲剧不是你失败了,而是你差点就成功。
明明是个男作者,我看起来却觉得在看女人的书,无比的细腻,无比地关注别人的感受。然后呢,冗长无比的故事
书中的方法多为自我心理暗示方向,即解铃还需系铃人。但参考案例不典型且缺乏延续性,引用的论点多具有宗教色彩,缺乏一定的客观性,即话粗理不粗。学习使用期中的几个方法,做事方法却有改观,需循序渐进,忌狼吞虎咽。