书籍 The Defining Decade的封面

The Defining Decade

Meg Jay

出版社

Twelve

出版时间

2012-04-16

ISBN

9780446561761

评分

★★★★★

标签

心理学

书籍介绍

Our "thirty-is-the-new-twenty" culture tells us the twentysomething years don't matter. Some say they are a second adolescence. Others call them an emerging adulthood. Dr. Meg Jay, a clinical psychologist, argues that twentysomethings have been caught in a swirl of hype and misinformation, much of which has trivialized what is actually the most defining decade of adulthood.

Drawing from a decade of work with hundreds of twentysomething clients and students, THE DEFINING DECADE weaves the latest science of the twentysomething years with behind-closed-doors stories from twentysomethings themselves. The result is a provocative read that provides the tools necessary to make the most of your twenties, and shows us how work, relationships, personality, social networks, identity, and even the brain can change more during this decade than at any other time in adulthood- if we use the time wisely.

THE DEFINING DECADE is a smart, compassionate and constructive book about the years we cannot afford to miss.

用户评论
如果早点读就好了…虽然写得很浅显,但是觉得蛮合我风格。也提醒了自己一些问题,比如找工作
重温作者thirty is not the new twenty的talk才发现已出了专书,各种相见恨晚。不过若没有去年被现实虚晃一枪后的焦灼和忧虑,也不会有现在这么痛的领悟吧...T.T
在许多问题上有不同且新颖的见解。不像其他假大空的励志成功书籍,只会猛灌鸡汤。
My first English book, finished in 3 days. To sum up, "The future isn't written in stars. There are no guarantees. So claim your adulthood. Be intentional. Get to work. Pick your family. Do the math. Make your own certainty. Don't be defined by what you didn't know or didn't do. You are deciding your life right now!"
This book will freaking change my life!
部分认可,时代和国情不同了
对二十多岁的人来说,很有启发。虽然大部分都是三十多岁之后才找到真爱,找到人生的意义,但不要去等着年龄的到来,而是要在二十多岁的时候就去主动选择自己想要陪伴一生的伴侣。
Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward. By Kierkegaard
8。听完 /有些启发,很多观点都听Ivan说过几乎一模一样的话。
什么30岁就是新的20岁,都是一些谎话。20岁的时候就应该去闯去探索,不要浪费这些机会等到30岁的时候才来后悔。