书籍 Crying in H Mart的封面

Crying in H Mart

Michelle Zauner

出版时间

2021-04-19

ISBN

9780525657743

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

From the indie rockstar of Japanese Breakfast fame, and author of the viral 2018 New Yorker essay that shares the title of this book, an unflinching, powerful memoir about growing up Korean American, losing her mother, and forging her own identity.

In this exquisite story of family, food, grief, and endurance, Michelle Zauner proves herself far more than a dazzling singer, songwriter, and guitarist. With humor and heart, she tells of growing up one of the few Asian American kids at her school in Eugene, Oregon; of struggling with her mother’s particular, high expectations of her; of a painful adolescence; of treasured months spent in her grandmother’s tiny apartment in Seoul, where she and her mother would bond, late at night, over heaping plates of food.

As she grew up, moving to the East Coast for college, finding work in the restaurant industry, and performing gigs with her fledgling band–and meeting the man who would become her husband–her Koreanness began to feel ever more distant, even as she found the life she wanted to live. It was her mother’s diagnosis of terminal cancer, when Michelle was twenty-five, that forced a reckoning with her identity and brought her to reclaim the gifts of taste, language, and history her mother had given her.

Vivacious and plainspoken, lyrical and honest, Zauner’s voice is as radiantly alive on the page as it is onstage. Rich with intimate anecdotes that will resonate widely, and complete with family photos, Crying in H Mart is a book to cherish, share, and reread.

MICHELLE ZAUNER is best known as a singer and guitarist who creates dreamy, shoegaze-inspired indie pop under the name Japanese Breakfast. She has won acclaim from major music outlets around the world for releases like Psychopomp (2016) and Soft Sounds from Another Planet (2017).

用户评论
如何失去又如何retain memories?亚裔文化里的母女关系总是让人有很多共鸣,比如关于食物的执着与爱,比如对彼此的期待以及不解,比如从依赖到逃离。很喜欢对食物,做饭的过程以及那些依然在作者记忆里关于文化的点点滴滴的描绘。最潸然泪下的片段是一个做饭的片段。有很多很喜欢的小细节和一些背景里的感受。
The book is characterized by Michelle’s identity and abilities to evoke images through the smallest of details. Love can be complex yet difficult, and it is represented in many ways, especially food, through which man searches for a piece of home or themselves. Likewise, readers empathize with the author to echo ourselves. //感谢Jae Yeon Kim的推荐!
好小气推荐,Audible上听的第一本书,作者的声音低沉又具有安慰性,即使如此,读到很多很多片段我都在想她怎么做到不带哭腔地读出?太真实了太诚实了,关于很多很多和死亡有关的心思,都被她细致地捕捉到了。亲人去世后对周围没有经历失去的人的怨恨,照顾妈妈时对爸爸不能作为可靠伙伴的失望,和对照顾妈妈更熟练的阿姨的抗拒,想要用自己的婚礼让妈妈转移注意力并且让自己美的更自信的小小愿望,妈妈生病时想要化身为完美女儿为妈妈承担痛苦的念头,妈妈去世后学习做各种韩国传统料理努力不要让自己身上来自妈妈那部分身份丢失掉。但是听到作者说,父母的家被出售,那些带有回忆的地方不复存在,还是有些酸楚。失去后的重建,就像白菜被发酵成泡菜一样,尽管腐烂,却随后以另一种方式获得了新生。
有点无趣。弃
感谢出版商给Cosmos Book Club的提前阅读机会!之前在纽约客杂志里读到同名文章时候就有一些共鸣,读了书更是如此,因为更加深入,探讨的角度更多。亚裔文化中母女关系我总觉得是个很复杂的题材,里面有很多错综复杂的情感,再加上作者家庭环境是爸爸美国白人妈妈韩国人自己是混血美国人,(半)二代移民的身份挣扎,讲述成长经历的心路历程读起来还是挺心酸的。另一部分是讲述自己作为独生子女因为癌症失去妈妈的过程,读着读着就掉眼泪。书里也讲了很多作者通过学会做韩国菜来增进自己和韩国文化的距离&自己的韩国身份的探讨挣扎。推荐大家pre-order阅读!
真情实感,引人入胜。又一窥韩国与韩裔美国人的文化。喜欢写deathbed的书。
好多细节写的好细腻啊,michelle的身份对我来说很容易代入,尤其母女关系真的有些太多细节感同身受。十月还看了japanese breakfast的演出,刚好赶上michelle和peter结婚八周年纪念日,他们真的可可爱爱!
my heart tears apart
实在算不上好书 但是很多细节读起来好感动 资词一下Michelle哇
在类似的困境中,得到安慰。