书籍 The Second Mountain的封面

The Second Mountain

David Brooks

出版社

Random House

出版时间

2019-04-15

ISBN

9780812993264

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

In The Second Mountain, David Brooks explores the four commitments that define a life of meaning and purpose: to a spouse and family, to a vocation, to a philosophy or faith, and to a community. Our personal fulfillment depends on how well we choose and execute these commitments. In The Second Mountain, Brooks looks at a range of people who have lived joyous, committed lives, and who have embraced the necessity of dependence. He gathers their wisdom on how to choose a partner, how to pick a vocation, how to live out a philosophy, and how we can begin to integrate our commitments into one overriding purpose.

In short, this book is meant to help us all lead more meaningful lives. But it’s also a provocative social commentary. We live in a society, Brooks argues, that celebrates freedom, that tells us to be true to ourselves, at the expense of surrendering to a cause, rooting ourselves in a neighborhood, binding ourselves to others by social solidarity and love. We have taken individualism to the extreme—and in the process we have torn the social fabric in a thousand different ways. The path to repair is through making deeper commitments. In The Second Mountain, Brooks shows what can happen when we put commitment-making at the center of our lives.

David Brooks is a political and cultural commentator. He is currently a columnist for The New York Times and a commentator on PBS NewsHour. He has previously worked for Washington Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Weekly Standard, Newsweek, The Atlantic Monthly and National Public Radio.

用户评论
此曲只应天上有,人间哪得几回闻?
处在中年,正是要翻这第二座大山。
三小时进 没有什么新鲜观点 stating the obvious with no real insights... 利他主义和长久的幸福感的关系到底是什么? 为什么两座山之间一定有低谷? 灾难性事件是利他行为和自我变小的必须吗?弃
只能是凑合看吧,开头和结尾不错,中间读不下去,特别是跟宗教连在一起的地方。美国作者的语言都有待提高,书中很多地方像是没有好好修改的初稿一样,没读出语言的美感。一本好书并不是一定要越多越好。可以把不成熟的地方删除,整本书的可读性会越好
我们常被教育要勇攀高峰,在世俗的定义中努力前行,然而是否有另一座高峰值得我们去探索?这本书给我们提供了一个新的角度,更好的审视人生。
人生的意义是个人还是团体,在个人成就达到一定程度之后会追求团体的价值。帮助他人而获得满足感。书的后一半一般般,写的乱七八糟
美国著名学者David Brooks将人生比喻成两座高峰。第一座高峰源于超级个人主义的流行,人们不顾一切追求世俗成就,获取金钱、地位和权力,但完全利己的生活不能带来长期心灵的喜悦。科技进步虽然缩短了物理距离,但人却变得越来越孤独,忧郁症病例攀升。与之相对,作者倡导走出超级个人主义,付出更多时间在建立关系和回报社会上;在使命、家庭、信仰和社区建设上付出更多承诺;在人与人的关系中,给与他人爱、尊重和安全感,将家庭和社区的福祉放在首位。这样一个无私的、放弃极端自我中心,追求付出和平等,充满内心喜悦的目标被称为人生第二座高峰。作者文笔极其优美,“Happiness comes from accomplishments; joy comes from offering gifts”,值得反复诵读!
“The secret of life, is to have a task, something you devote your entire life to, something you bring everything to, every minute of every day for the rest of your life. And the most important thing is, it must be something you cannot possibly do.”