书籍 Stumbling on Happiness的封面

Stumbling on Happiness

Daniel Gilbert

出版社

Knopf

出版时间

2006-05-02

ISBN

9781400042661

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

Why are lovers quicker to forgive their partners for infidelity than for leaving dirty dishes in the sink? Why will sighted people pay more to avoid going blind than blind people will pay to regain their sight? Why do dining companions insist on ordering different meals instead of getting what they really want? Why do patients remember long medical procedures as being less painful than short ones? Why do home sellers demand prices they wouldn’t dream of paying if they were home buyers? Why are shoppers happier when they can’t get refunds? Why do pigeons seem to have such excellent aim; why can’t we remember one song while listening to another; and why does the line at the grocery store always slow down the moment we join it?

In this brilliant, witty, and accessible book, renowned Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert describes the foibles of imagination and illusions of foresight that cause each of us to misconceive our tomorrows and misestimate our satisfactions. Vividly bringing to life the latest scientific research in psychology, cognitive neuroscience, philosophy, and behavioral economics, Gilbert reveals what scientists have discovered about the uniquely human ability to imagine the future, and about our capacity to predict how much we will like it when we get there. With penetrating insight and sparkling prose, Gilbert explains why we seem to know so little about the hearts and minds of the people we are about to become.</p>

Daniel Gilbert is Harvard College Professor of Psychology at Harvard University. He has won numerous awards for his teaching and research, including the American Psychological Association's Distinguished Scientific Award for an Early Career Contribution to Psychology. His research has been covered by The New York Times Magazine, Forbes, Money, CNN, U.S. News & World Report, The...

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用户评论
这是基于 TED 演讲 做出的评分。人们对选择的预想是出乎自己意料的,人们对无法改变的事实不仅会接受,而且会更喜爱,反而对可以改变的东西,越来越不喜欢。但让人们去预想自己的喜爱程度,他们常常选择那个可选择的,不喜欢的。用户研究应当考虑到这点。 http://www.ted.com/talks/dan_gilbert_asks_why_are_we_happy.html
刚刚从哈佛幸福课出门试图消化“allow yourself to be human”,转头就在这本书里遍历了一边"unlogical things we human do"。归根结底是我们对“情绪”的causation和corelation的预测很有限。那能咋办呢,we are all stuck on this earth together
唉,连为什么快乐都知道了,那还能怎样继续快乐下去。
更正本人对积极心理学的偏见,不是self-help,是正经科学
highly recommend
用“The human being is the only animal that thinks about the future”替代以前的“使用工具、有自己的语言”来定义人类,普通人每天的想法中有12%是关于未来,我们会想象未来来影响当下的决策,可人到三十岁后才能明白20岁时想象的三十岁(future)有多幼稚可笑,用future来影响当下的决策必然影响体验(20岁做决策会想象未来)。用认知心理学做基础,幽默风趣的论述,让人慢慢审视那些我们视为理所当然的东西其实不合逻辑,作者只是给出一个视角,从此视角看我平常跟朋友们的争论(朝鲜普通人会不会更幸福,从未离开家的长辈们会不会更平静,残疾人的快乐会不会一定少于普通人)立即有新感悟。40岁时一定要把这本书重读一遍,作者好口才,很喜欢他的TED。
A good book for not eye opening for me
废话浓度颇高,但好好笑啊哈哈哈哈哈。
姜姜分享的illegal copy. 三人共讀我極快速讀完 I shouldn’t read lol this type of self-help book never match me lol