书籍 Sons and Lovers的封面

Sons and Lovers

D. H. Lawrence

出版时间

1992-05-01

ISBN

9781853260476

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

《儿子与情人(Sons and Lovers)》是劳伦斯以他的童年和青少年时代生活为蓝本而写成的一部成名作。小说主人公保罗的父母莫瑞尔夫妇在一次舞会上一见钟情,缔结婚姻。但莫瑞尔是矿工,而莫瑞尔太太出身中产阶级。两人的生活理念截然不同,妻子面对丈夫的浑浑噩噩,深感希望破灭。对丈夫的失望、不满和怨恨使莫瑞尔太太把自己的感情和希望都倾注到儿子身上。她先是寄希望于长子威廉,然而长子早逝。她又寄希望于次子保罗,希望他能够出人头地,实现她的理想。她爱儿子,鼓励他成名成家,跻身于上流社会;她又从精神上控制儿子,使他不能钟情于别的女人。这使得保罗在以后的感情问题上迷茫、困惑、无所适从。和女友米莉安的交往使年轻的保罗经历了精神痛苦的过程。然而和他的母亲一样,米莉安也试图从精神上占有保罗,使保罗感到窒息。后来他们分手了。保罗身边还有一个与丈夫分居的名叫克拉拉的女人。保罗从她那里得到了肉体上的满足。不过最终克拉拉结束了和保罗的感情生活,回到丈夫身边。最后莫瑞尔太太病逝,保罗和米莉安也未能重归于好。他依旧孑然一人,四处漂流,继续着他精神上的挣扎。

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This semi-autobiographical novel explores the emotional conflicts through the protagonist, Paul Morel, and the suffocating relationships with a demanding mother and two very different lovers. It is a Freudian exploration of love and possessiveness.

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Sons and Lovers was the first modern portrayal of a phenomenon that later, thanks to Freud, became easily recognizable as the Oedipus complex. Never was a son more indentured to his mother's love and full of hatred for his father than Paul Morel, D.H. Lawrence's young protagonist. Never, that is, except perhaps Lawrence himself. In his 1913 novel he grappled with the discordant loves that haunted him all his life--for his spiritual childhood sweetheart, here called Miriam, and for his mother, whom he transformed into Mrs. Morel. It is, by Lawrence's own account, a book aimed at depicting this woman's grasp: "as her sons grow up she selects them as lovers--first the eldest, then the second. These sons are urged into life by their reciprocal love of their mother--urged on and on. But when they come to manhood, they can't love, because their mother is the strongest power in their lives."

Of course, Mrs. Morel takes neither of her two elder sons (the first of whom dies early, which further intensifies her grip on Paul) as a literal lover, but nonetheless her psychological snare is immense. She loathes Paul's Miriam from the start, understanding that the girl's deep love of her son will oust her: "She's not like an ordinary woman, who can leave me my share in him. She wants to absorb him." Meanwhile, Paul plays his part with equal fervor, incapable of committing himself in either direction: "Why did his mother sit at home and suffer?... And why did he hate Miriam, and feel so cruel towards her, at the thought of his mother. If Miriam caused his mother suffering, then he hated her--and he easily hated her." Soon thereafter he even confesses to his mother: "I really don't love her. I talk to her, but I want to come home to you."

The result of all this is that Paul throws Miriam over for a married suffragette, Clara Dawes, who fulfills the sexual component of his ascent to manhood but leaves him, as ever, without a complete relationship to challenge his love for his mother. As Paul voyages from the working-class mining world to the spheres of commerce and art (he has fair success as a painter), he accepts that his own achievements must be equally his mother's. "There was so much to come out of him. Life for her was rich with promise. She was to see herself fulfilled... All his work was hers."

The cycles of Paul's relationships with these three women are terrifying at times, and Lawrence does nothing to dim their intensity. Nor does he shirk in his vivid, sensuous descriptions of the landscape that offers up its blossoms and beasts and "shimmeriness" to Paul's sensitive spirit. Sons and Lovers lays fully bare the souls of men and earth. Few books tell such whole, complicated truths about the permutations of love as resolutely without resolution. It's nothing short of searing to be brushed by humanity in this manner.

 --Melanie Re

From Kirkus Reviews

When Sons and Lovers was first seen by its reading public in 1913, its publishers had in fact, out of caution and timidity, shortened Lawrence's originally submitted version by about ten percent--cuts that are restored in this new "uncensored and uncut" edition. Complexity of characterization, intensity of characters' confrontations, and sexual frankness are now, say the publishers, as the author intended them. Example: "He could smell her faint perfume" returns to its original, "He could smell her faint natural perfume, and it drove him wild with hunger."

The Merriam-Webster Encyclopedia of Literature

Semiautobiographical novel by D.H. Lawrence, published in 1913. His first mature novel, it is a psychological study of the familial and love relationships of a working-class English family. The novel revolves around Paul Morel, a sensitive young artist whose love for his mother, Gertrude, overshadows his romances with two women: Miriam Leivers, his repressed, religious girlfriend, and Clara Dawes, an experienced, independent married woman. Unable to watch his mother die slowly of cancer, Paul kills her with morphine. Despite losing her and rejecting both Miriam and Clara, Paul harbors hope for the future.

From AudioFile

Lawrence's first major novel is unstintingly, passionately autobiographical. Set in a Nottinghamshire mining town, it concerns the high-minded wife of a brutal miner who puts all hopes into her artistic son, Paul. Copley brings the workingclass milieu to life. His north country accent enhances the author's regional "sound," which may not be apparent on the page to American readers, but which is a prominent feature of the book's aesthetic. By shaving off a bit too much of the color, the abridgment reinforces the novel's starkness. Therefore, one should hear this recording before, not instead of, reading the full work. Y.R.

Book Dimension :

length: (cm)19.8 width:(cm)12.6

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儿子与情人(全译本)

戴·赫·劳伦斯,(David Herbert Lawrence,1885~1930)英国诗人、小说家、散文家。出生于矿工家庭,当过屠户会计、厂商雇员和小学教师,曾在国内外漂泊十多年,对现实抱批判否定态度。他写过诗,但主要写长篇小说,共有10部,最著名的为《虹》(1915)、《爱恋中的女人》(1921)和《查太莱夫人的情人》(1928)。

劳伦斯生于1885年。父亲是矿工,缺少教育;母亲出身上流社会,有良好的修养。这种文化上的差异,使他们经常吵吵闹闹。但这种差异使劳伦斯从父亲那里得到了丰富的社会经验,从母亲那里至高无上的关怀。也许是母亲过分溺爱,劳伦斯有严重的恋母情结。他在给朋友的信中说:“我们相互爱着,几乎像丈夫跟妻子那样的爱,同时又是母亲与儿子的爱。我们俩就像一个人,彼此那样敏感,我们之间不要语言。这挺可怕,弄得我有些方面不正常。”

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用户评论
恋父以及恋母情结,总会在父母亲或者一个充当这种角色的人身上实现,然后我们就失去了爱一个人的能力
是我现在品味仍然太烂或者我那个Kindle version出了错还是怎么的,我觉得这个小说里面的人都是神经病,而且文笔也不是很好啊。。。
断断续续读了一个月,今天终于看完了。深深地叹了一口气,我好像理解保罗,可能是都很擅长使用冷暴力吧。
十分细腻,恋爱细节逼真捕捉入微,简直又苦逼和骚动了一次。标志性的劳伦斯象征意象,月光、种马之类,总是有种古希腊罗马神话式的美感。对人物的处理重点分明。
电子版800多页终于看完了。。。完全不是“以色情为噱头”好吗。最喜欢两段:1. 父亲做东西,孩子们围着他转,这丰满了父亲的形象,也让我悲从中来;2. Paul 一边哭一边亲吻母亲的脖颈,我把这当成是劳伦斯500页前戏后堆积出的高潮。
DHL写爱随时间的变化可以直接画成函数,光滑且连续。他尽管对女人小孩或者骨子里是女人小孩的人,观察入微偶至恐怖,但能一边写人一边分析人,智性尚存。夫人更少爱而更多宽容,嘲笑又为嘲笑的胜利而心痛,决心只爱儿子后,丈夫也确实失踪于生活褶皱,只在群戏中不合时宜,每到谁死,悲伤方现;Paul感到Miriam的力量,于是疏远恨她,写轻松残忍的信,现在你明白了吧为何我只在槲寄生下吻你。一个字就是“土”,乡下人的爱,读时想欧洲村庄,草地辽阔,火车遥远。爱慕美、爱慕年轻,蛮横而无言,默认就该be trivial, seek beauty, submit to earthy stuff,而分析性的隐忍情感注定忙于自证,有灵无肉的陪伴正当有理,反而只在母子之间
恶心的厌女妈宝男形象简直跃然纸上,Paul真的好真实:?怎么会是我的错呢?都是女人的问题;?怎么会有女人离婚?她有没有给她的丈夫一个爱她的机会?;怎么会有女人支持女权,女性不是应该被男的保护吗?保护自己的女人就是疯狗嘛;?怎么会没有女人想和妈妈那样爱我保护我聆听我?;女性不就是应该在家带孩子最幸福快乐吗?真的吐了,果然以人为镜可以明得失,Paul这个形象我可以看到很多人的身影,而且我觉得要是看到跟Paul一样的特性真的可以远离了…人物塑造不错,特别是对于厌女的批判,但是我觉得真的看得憋屈…一点喜悦明丽的色彩都没有(不愧是哈代继承人吗…)但是哈代的里面都有苦涩的美l的地方,因为世界不只有苦啊,比如裘德看到的Christminster的月光,但这里真的感觉都是苦,感觉是取了哈代的短了…
不幸的婚姻影响的不只是一代人,幸福的童年却可以疗愈悲惨的一生。
没读完 chapter5止 DHlawrence我们有缘再见 等我的英文水平再高一点 没这么吃力了
跟自己过于相像,十分难受