书籍 The Mountain Is You的封面

The Mountain Is You

Brianna Wiest

出版时间

2020-05-28

ISBN

9781949759228

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

This book is about self-sabotage.

Why we do it, when we do it, and how to stop doing it—for good.

Coexisting but conflicting needs create self-sabotaging behaviors. This is why we resist efforts to change, often until they feel completely futile. But by extracting crucial insight from our most damaging habits, building emotional intelligence by better understanding our brains and bodies, releasing past experiences at a cellular level, and learning to act as our highest potential future selves, we can step out of our own way and into our potential.

For centuries, the mountain has been used as a metaphor for the big challenges we face, especially ones that seem impossible to overcome. To scale our mountains, we actually have to do the deep internal work of excavating trauma, building resilience, and adjusting how we show up for the climb.

In the end, it is not the mountain we master, but ourselves.

Brianna is the author of several books, including the international bestsellers "101 Essays That Change The Way You Think" and "The Mountain Is You." In her own words, she says, "I believe that the root of being human is learning how to think. From this, we learn how to love, share, coexist, tolerate, give, and create. I believe the first and most important duty we have is to a...

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用户评论
对现阶段的我,对症下药的一本书。之前意识到自己总是在一切似乎平稳进行的时候感到心慌然后故意给自己找一些issues。之前一直以为 this is just who I am. 读过这本书之后,恍然大悟,we seek familiarity not happiness by default. 调高自己对happiness的upper limit似乎比让自己更resiliant更重要。要面对自己,了解自己的core commitments and core needs. 然后去满足自己。感恩在2022的年尾,2023年的开头看了这本书,新的一年,transition from self-sabotage to self mastery!
有些人会觉得自己在做一些破坏自我的事情,例如不肯放弃一段并不享受的relationship,明知道对心理健康有害但还是无法停止过分在意别人的看法,很需要陪伴却keep pushing others away,渴望financial security却无法行动起来去争取,等等。但Self-sabotage(自我破坏)并不真的存在,每一种表面上自我破坏的行为都是为了满足一种我们没有意识到的需求,只是选择了无效的方法。不去做真正想做的事情不是一个自律的问题,而是无意识地在用“不去做”来解决其他需求。要想真正走出这个困境,不仅要停止自我破坏的行为,还要去倾听这个行为在传递的内在需求。用真正有用的方法去满足这个需求才能走出恶性循环。 和冥想练习配合起来非常有效。冥想背后的很多原理在里面有详细的解释
想给爸爸妈妈看。为什么没人翻译这本书呢?在中国市场上应该也很受欢迎的
如何去面对精神内耗
书写的挺好的,就是没有目录,每次看到中间我都不知道我跳哪了
“Your life is just beginning.”(btw这本书出个中文版应该会还不错哦
人类追求的不是幸福,而是追求舒服安逸
两星半。睡觉听的,有一些实用建议,但写的比较散,很口语适合听。
Understand what triggers your self-sabotage.